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WILL and CHIARA 

 

We’re a deeply connected, real-life married couple with two decades of experience as intimacy mentors.

We designed the Deeper Lovers Method™ specifically for people who desire to increase intimacy by building confidence in how they talk about (and have) sex and relationships.

We help men and women find their voice so they can express their most secret fantasies without shame or fear. As a result, they get to experience the best sex of their life. 

Deeper Lovers was born from our passion for human psychology, sexuality, and alternative relationships.

Chiara Hardie profile

Chiara is an international workshop facilitator, podcaster and mentor. She creates profound transformational  experiences that allow people to find their voice and feel safe to talk about sexual desires and fears without shame. 

Since 2009 she's been leading people across three continents in multiple workshops on life transformation, trauma healing and deconditioning.

Today she runs deep intimacy experiences and programmes for men and women who are keen to grow together, exploring new - sometimes unconventional - ways to connect, overcoming taboos around sexuality.

She also co-host a very personal podcast about sexual exploration, desire and the kind of conversations most people avoid, yet are eager to have. 

 

Experience and Trainings:

  • ICF professional Co-Active coach
  • Gabor MatĂ© Compassionate Inquiry Programme
  • Trauma-informed facilitator for Primal Childhood Deconditioning Retreats
  • The New Tantra
  • Somatic Experiencing and Breathwork practitioner
  • Bodyworker and Thai aromatherapy massage
  • YA certified 200h Vinyasa yoga teacher
  • Ido Portal Movement practitioner
Will Hardie profile

Will is an international mentor, workshop facilitator and podcaster with a master’s in Psychology from Oxford. He coaches on communication, trauma, deconditioning, relationships and intimacy. He guides others to unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is an expert in verbal and nonverbal communication. In his corporate work, Will has coached more than 2,000 people including two Prime Ministers.

 

Experience and Trainings:

  • Founder of the International School of Communication
  • Gabor MatĂ© Compassionate Inquiry Programme
  • Trauma-informed facilitator for Primal Childhood Deconditioning Retreats
  • The New Tantra
  • Next Level bodyworker
  • Ido Portal Movement practitioner

“After I hit my mid-30s I noticed I was more often finding it difficult to get hard. I checked with doctors who said this is natural, but I didn’t believe them, especially because all my male friends didn’t seem to have this problem (or so they said). I took the courage to have a session with Will, and he coached me with real empathy and gave me a few very useful approaches to get back into my sexual prime. I got my confidence back."

Imad, Beirut

"Chiara helped pull answers out of me that I didn’t even know I had.

I was super nervous about what to expect, but she made me feel completely safe and at ease."

Rebecca, London

"Had a few dates and sexual encounters this week and  I felt empowered to be very clear about my boundaries and needs. Speaking with you two really helped me get back in a place of power, and made me feel legitimately excited to explore what’s around me."

Sam, New York

                

50% of married couples in the US are unhappy with their sex lives and struggle with:

These Emotions

✓ Wanting to be seen and understood

✓ Feeling guilty all the time, for whatever reason

✓ Complete trust (emotional and/or physical)

✓ Ability to share deep fears and desires

✓  Avoidance of conflict and difficult conversations

✓ Conditioning - "I should [FILL IN THE BLANKS] because that’s what I’ve been taught. Everyone expects this from me. I feel I don’t have a choice”

 

Body and "performance" issues

✓ Confidence and body image (you don’t like your body or you believe your body is not acting the way “it should”)

✓ Inability to orgasm (most women struggle with this)

✓ Premature ejaculation or erectile disfunction (most men struggle with this)

✓ Lower or higher libido than the partner’s 

✓ Finding intimacy with the partner (both emotional connection or physical intimacy)

✓ Feeling disconnected during sex

It doesn't have to be this way.

Interested in the Deeper Lovers Method™?

Radically transform the way you talk about sex, so you can express your deepest fantasies without fears, connect deeper to your partner, and experience the best sex of your life.

➝ Discover THE DEEPER LOVERS METHOD™